Want to strike fear or anger in the heart of a parent? Have them witness their child having a tantrum. To make things extra “spicy,” have the tantrum be in public.  Unfortunately, tantrums are something that ALL parents have to manage. Since the holidays often bring added stress, and added stress can also mean more tantrums (I was talking about your child’s…but I’ve been known to have them on occasion!), here are some tips to help you get through them with fewer gray hairs:
1. Prevent tantrums as much as possible.  Know your …

Has anyone ever criticized your parenting? Or have you ever gotten one of those looks (and the wagging finger) from a little old lady who is horrified that your child isn’t wearing a coat in winter (never mind the power struggle you just went through to convince said child to wear the darn thing because it’s cold out!)? I recently had someone tell me I mustn’t be a good mother because my child’s hair is never brushed. Um, well…the bad (or good, depending on how you look at it) news is that her …

I’m fond of saying that when moms feel better, they do better. In a previous post, I talked about how comparing yourself to other moms can leave you feeling awful. Yet, everywhere around you are examples of how to parent better. What should you pay attention to versus what should you ignore? Here are my tips for easy ways to feel like a better mother, without comparing yourself.
1. Know Thyself. As I’ve mentioned before, knowing your personality style and what makes you tick as a mother is very freeing. It helps you …

Each child is unique, but mothers are, too. What style of mother are you?